I am a Submissive Women Article

Passionate Ben · Site Admin Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 47

This is another one that I had. I particularly like this one, because in the years since I found this lifestyle and desired it for myself. I have come to understand that many do not know what it is about.

They believe it is about kink and it is more than that. They believe its about abuse and it is not that at all. They believe that in being a submissive woman it is about weakness, and that could not be farther from the truth.

I like this one because it shows what it is about, what it can be about and what it should be about.

I hope you enjoy it.

~Misty~

I am a submissive woman
~Author Unknown

i find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive
to my Master in a loving relationship.
i am not weak or stupid. i am a strong woman,
with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life.
i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
i will look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never
will i be more complete than when He is with me.
i know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul
with His strength and wisdom.
He is everything to me, as i am everything to Him.
His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me.
Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy...
His punishments may be harsh, but i accept them thankfully,
knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.
If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him
and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of O/our relationship.
The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt,
those are all parts of this relationship.
My body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am.
No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes,
and because of that i hold my head high.
If He says i am His precious jewel,
then i am that...a beautiful, sparkling gem.
If He says that i am His pet, His slut, His whore, then i am that..
as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be.
My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can.
i have no secrets from Him... for secrets are a thing that would
keep me from being more perfectly His.
Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself...
and i do not want walls.
His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own,
but they are lessons He has decided that i need, and so i learn from Him.
My soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be
when i kneel naked at His feet.
Never a moment goes by when i do not feel His presence,
be He miles away or standing over me.
If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul,
worse punishment than any lashes could be.
The anguish of my soul that i feel when i disappoint Him
is harder to bear than any physical anguish i feel.
i am grateful that he cares enough about me to spend
His time and energy so freely on me.
i have the easier job, to feel, to experience,
to let myself go and abandon everything to Him.
i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously .
i am a submissive woman.
i am proud to call myself that, my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly,
and can only be given to the One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.
Only to my Master who has that strength, will i give myself fully,
because i am strong and proud.
i am a submissive woman.
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kamberkidd · Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 1

I have myself recently found that i really enjoy the same life style. I feel the need to push the boundaries of what I have been taught as acceptable sexual behavior. And instead of being bored with sex Im excited about it and have started to really enjoy it. Twisted Evil

Im the type of woman who enjoys being a sadist and a masochist it depends on my mood tee hee hee! Im really enjoying all the dress and the elborate things that you get to do in order to prepair for the evenings ahead! So cheers! Enjoy whatever you want to do with your sexuality and dont be afraid to try something out of the blue.....you never know if you might like it or not until you try!

spicytwo2 · Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 16

I too have enjoyed that lifestyle and now have the chance to explore being the dominant and really not sure what to do but am up for the adventure and all it has to offer...any suggestions...

miss rainey · Joined: 31 Aug 2006 Posts: 10

This is the first time that id heard of the lifestyle and i found the article very interesting.
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HardcorePrincess · Joined: 31 Aug 2006 Posts: 6

This is a very interesting article. I would have no problem being submissive to the right Master...
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Skeedaddle · Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 8

I am very strong willed, independent woman. I am assertive, borderline aggressive. I would have a problem being submissive because I would have to allow myself to be vulnerable to my sexual partner. I guard myself at all times (birth control and heart). I'll let my heart be involved only if my mind agrees and it's tough to convince my mind. I've been there and done that on a lot of things. Life hasn't made me hard, just cautious. I am seasoned and experienced and I know what I want and what pleasures me. So being open to new things, I can. However, I'm the one with the control issue. I guess it all stems from attitude. And I have that in abundance. ~Skee~

miss rainey · Joined: 31 Aug 2006 Posts: 10

Skeedaddle while i found the article iinteresting i agree wiht you. Im very independant and slightly aggressive too and dont think i could be vunerable or submissive either
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cynnara · Joined: 18 Sep 2006 Posts: 6

I found the article interesting, though I wish it had also dealt more on other aspect of the D/S lifestyle--including the fact that for some the only place where the Master/Slave relationship comes into play is in the bedroom. When I was younger, I was blessed with an opportunity to gently dip myself into this sexual realm, exploring both aspects-- being a Dom as well as a Sub.

Being completely submissive is not for everyone--and solid, experienced Doms know that. In fact, before you go anywhere, you answer many questions, are interviewed by various interested parties, and if you find the right Dom--you both are honest on how far both of your roles go and where the limits are. It's a learning process for someone who craves submission but is a strong person, always doing for others, taking care of others to let go and trust that their lover will take care of them emotionally and sexually.

Just as with bondage, S/M and other kinkier lifestyles, there are watch words chosen so that if either person feels they're getting overwhelmed, they can just say the word aloud and the other partner stops everything. With the people I know who live this life, they have two code words--one for the uncomfortable feeling--but still wanting to progress forward, though perhaps slower; then there is the danger word that says everything must stop completely at that moment because the person can't handle anything else because they're overwhelmed or feel like they're in danger.

In all my experiences, there are three men whom I trusted and submitted to in some degree. Of them, there was only one that I trusted to a greater degree and he took seriously his role as the provider of my pleasure as well as his own. Good Doms accept the responsibility of helping you to submit--releasing unchecked anger, pain, and pleasure. Being the one to guide the journey to mutual pleasure heightens their enjoyment both emotionally and sexually, just as it brings a submissive release and joy in allowing someone else to be in charge. Yet, I've still not completely submitted to anyone. Why? Honestly, I've not found the person I can trust not only with my life, but with my emotions, knowing that my well-being and pleasure is just as important as their fulfillment.

I think the article sheds light on the lifestyle and corrects a lot of misconceptions people have about the D/S lifestyle. Yet, there are so many varieties to explore, just as there are a variety of sexual positions. Perhaps the author will do a followup exploring other aspects, including those brought up here.

Always, Cyn

Damaged.Defected · Joined: 31 Aug 2006 Posts: 14

this is a very good Article.. I found it really interesting.. that poem is good.. and the choice of words used in it.. and how it was really well written.. I would have to agree.. I would be very submissive IF I found the right Man..but not as submissive as that.. and I use the word "Man" cause the word Master sounds very controling.. and makes you seem like a slave.. (although in the poem it dont quiet spell it out like that).. but to me it dont sound to much like the lady is very independant or strong cause she does EVERYTHING to please him.. and I think it should be that other way around
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crimsonred · Joined: 22 Mar 2009 Posts: 2

well its seems to have been a while since someone last posted ,,,dont know if anyone will read this.

my heart belongs to him and my mind wants to know his voice. all i have ever wanted was to belong,,not to a group or to society but i have always wanted to belong to him. i have a leash connected to my heart and the leather is rolled up in my hand, and i wander like a lost puppy looking for an owner. its invisible and no one will be able to see it......but him. i will hold his heart to mine and cherish it and always show trust,because my words mean nothing compared to my actions.

so i know he will find me and show his heart and i will show him mine..thats all..its the truth of what my heart wants... Very Happy

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